How Failure would shape you, It’s totally depends on your mindset, How you take your failure, It’s your choice to take it either as a regret or learnings.
First of all, Unlearn the misconceptions about the failure, you were taught as a kid by your teachers, parents and society that failure is a shameful thing, You are always thought that about failure that It is a very big problem if you fail in any particular exam then subconciously you started to believe that being fail at any particular moment of the life means life gets ruined or you have made a huge mistake.
Accept the failure as a part of the life, No one is perfect in the world so it’s ok if you made the mistake or if you fail at any moment of life or if something didn’t work, Everyone have to face failure at any particular point of life, the thing which actually matters is how you take your failures, It’s your responsibility to take the failure as a lessons of the life.
If there would be no failure in the life, a person could never learn to be humble, If there would be no failure in the life, person would become arrogant and could never develop learning mindset.
It’s upto you that “how you deal with the failure”
- Turning Point or The End: “You can see your failure as the turning point of their life, if you have to face a failure, it’s mean you were in wrong direction earlier, all you need is just to turn into the right direction” or “you can also see your failure like an end of the life by assuming that ‘the exam in which you fail’ or ‘a job you wouldn’t get’ or ‘a person who leave you in relationship’ was your life” Choice is yours how to deal with the failure.
- Collapse or Consious Comback: “Failure could be a reason of your ‘self-criticism’ or ‘loss of self-esteem'” or “Failure could be a reason of your powerful comback since the time when you deal with the failure, it’s a time when your conciousness starts to improves , the best utilization of your darkest time that you can do is to work on your weak areas which always prevent you to grow in your life, so that when you comback your biggest weakness becomes your greatest strength since stars shines in the darkness and you grow in the next chapter of your life with the strength you developed in your darkest time”.
- Trauma or Experience: “Failure could be trauma for someone who attached his identity and self esteem with the result and who is not familiar with challenges and growth” or “Failure could also be an experience for a person, growth lived in whose consciousness”.
- Broke or Grow: “Failure could broke a person whose subconcious belief is ‘I am nothing beyond my achievements and success‘” or “Failure could also grow a person who subconcious belief is ‘Whatever the result but I don’t want to carry the regret that I didn’t give my best.'” Everything depend on what is your subconcious belief.
- Regret or Rewrite: ” Some peoples choose to live in a pain of a regret after being failed ‘I wish I work harder, I wish I was smart, I wish I had chosen the right path'” or ” Some peoples choose the responsibility to make the upcoming chapters of their life meaningful with purposefully aligned goals so that minimum regrets would left at the end of their life“
- Doubt the process or Trust Divine timing:“You can doubt the process and could feel frustate that you are not able to do anything since you didn’t get any positive result and things didn’t happen according to your expectations” or “You can smile even in the darkest time of your life while enjoying the progress, if you trust divine timing, if you believe that before universe gives you success, universe build version in you who deserve the success and hold capability to handle the success”.
- Listen “Conditioned voice” or “Awared voice”: Two Voice came from you when you fail in the life, Choice is yours which one you listen “One which is conditioned by your surrounding, relatives, family, friends and peoples who are in your life, following it blindly could bring you in the same trap again, It’s like you are planning to do same kind of mistake due to which you failed earlier” or “One which came from deep inside which is message of god exist inside of you, following it would be slightly difficult, but it is an aligned direction where universe would guide you itself to attract success which shapes your new version”