Is there a lack of efforts or talent make the peoples fail in the life ?, Do peoples fails due to bad luck ?, Do Peoples fails due to lack of self-confidence or courage in themselves ?
Sometimes Peoples fails in the life even after having talent, even after hardwork, inspite of having confidence and then blames luck, These are the reasons behind being failed in life:
- Lack of Self-awareness and clarity: Many peoples got fail in their carrier & relationships since they lack self awareness and clarity regarding what kind of person they are from deep inside. what kind of activities they love and what are their hobbies based on which they should decide their carrier, most of the peoples who fail in their professional life didn’t choose carrier where they would feel purposefully aligned with their interest, passion and hobbies and then stuck in wrong carrier, Please don’t make the mistake of choosing carrier based on the what other’s people say and possible success of any particular carrier, always keep your interest in priority while choosing your carrier. Before choosing your life partner, first be aware what kind of partner you actually need and In what aspects you could become a giver, and don’t have an unrealistic expectations then you would be successful in relationships.
- No Planning and consious thinking for right actions: It is the one of the major for being failed that peoples forget to prepare an adequate plan for the right action with concious analysis, Then peoples took actions for the goals and also works hard but it’s like a directionless hardwork later which results as a failure.
- Making Excuses for the curcumstances and situations not in favour: Most peoples wait for perfect moment and want every situation to be perfect for the beginning, and blame the things which are not in favour, they didn’t look for the situations which are in the favour, resources they have to take a small step in the beginning, for example: Many of peoples wants to start a youtube channel and they also have a niche or purpose to deliever the value in content, but they don’t start just because they didn’t have fancy equipments or expensive mikes but they can also began with an smartphone in which an image is clearly visible in camera and mike which cost around five hundred to one thousand and can invest later in expensive camera, setups and expensive mikes, If you wanna took an action for your goal then don’t seek perfection in everything and don’t make unnecessary excuse for not taking actions, just take a small step with minimum possible investment and with available resources.
- Excessive attachment with the result: Your focus should only on the things which are in your hands, Your focus should on only on to give best efforts from your side, you overthink about what would be result, would you succeed or not, You imagine worst possible situation about the outcome, due to which you feel scared, overwhelmed and stressed, due to which you wouldn’t able to give your 100% efforts since result attachment bothers you due to which you overthink about it which sometimes hampers your performance.
- Being so impatient and not enjoying the progress: In this impatient world, everyone wants instant results, no one have a patience to be consistent with the efforts and wait for the right moment, Have some patience, be consistent with your efforts and learn to enjoy the entire process of reaching towards success. Many of the peoples starts youtube channel but they didn’t maintain consistency and stop creating content after 1-3 months if they didn’t get results, they should work on improving the scripting or editing quality and understanding the algorithms, SEO or other things which are required, but mistake people make, they get disappointed when they didn’t get views & subscribers.
- Afraid of taking risk and not being open with challenges: Most peoples didn’t show the courage to take risk for the things they wants to achieve whether it’s a business or content creation or any other passion, most people consider challenges as very big problems, they think challenges are the punishment, but actually challenges are the preparations, challenges shape your high value version, when you subconcious mind becomes familiar with dealing with challenges, from that moment your growth begins.
- Not accepting discomfort to take the actions: In India, Maximum peoples are survival focussed, they have a fixed mindest study, then job, then marriage, then kids, then retirement, then die with the regret of not living a purposeful life, You know what is the reason behind it, people didn’t leave their comfort zone, they didn’t take actions to explore, learn and try something new, due to which they never reach closer towards their passion or purpose of life, If you didn’t have any goal, passion or purpose of life, your subconcious mind would never allow you to take the actions outside of your comfort.
- Being arrogant and not having a learning mindset: Ego is your biggest enemy which can kills all the positivity that exist in your concious mind, It’s happen when peoples get small success, they feel satisfy and conciously think that it’s a biggest achievement of life for them and after that they didn’t priotize learning which not only hampers on their growth but also brings in their mind which could be so dangerous in the situation when they have to face a tough situation in life, because ego can kills the ability of the peoples to deal with challenges, so don’t allow ego to be heavy on your mind.
Conclusion
My Purpose behind this blog is to share kind of mindset that make a person failure in life, Sometimes you have talent, potential and dedication for the hardwork but you lack right direction to attract success.